Problem with dating beautiful women
Some people have voids inside them and they forever try to fill them – with having other people desire them, with sex, with power, with money, etc.
In many cases, the void that people feel is caused by a feeling of separateness – a feeling that we don’t belong and aren’t acceptable.
But I can’t think of a time where the insecurity of one partner inspired a change in the other partner.
Especially when the insecure partner isn’t willing to walk away regardless of whether or not they get what they want.
I give him everything that he needs sexually, emotionally, physically and mentally, but still he flirts with other girls and has sexy conversations with them. You’re making a whole lot of assumptions in your question…
Rather than wanting him to change, the better path is to move towards understanding each other better.
Understanding each other is the basis of connection.
There are times where one person might inspire change in another person, but it’s because the other person wanted the change themselves as well.
There are times where one person will get their act together because they’re afraid to lose something good or they’re determined to win something good.