Dating older woman and tip
Many liken her to a sexier, and even more talented (yes we went there) Missy Elliot!
And while she may want to know how you look in petticoats she probably wants a guy who is a man.
Really the question is what is wrong with your or at least your presentation of yourself? I'll Do Anything, there are plenty of you out there. Any dominant woman that responds to your email is apt to be a beginner. But there are pure masochists and sadists who only giggle at words like slave and Mistress. You'll need to make sure you approach women whose desires complement yours.
Within a month promises of being willing to do anything will only prove to her that she doesn't want anything to do with you. Use Yahoo Geocities or similar service and create a simple web page. If you aren't able to write discursively and personally put up a simple slave's checklist.
And there's nothing to be gained by trying to meet someone you can't satisfy or that would be inappropriate for you.
Aside from the checklist you really should have a few paragraphs describing yourself and your interests outside of D/s.