Dating emotionally immature men
If everyone in your life is letting you down, that might have something to do with perspective, but if it’s just him… Kate Ferguson Kate Ferguson is a Los Angeles local and freelance writer for a variety of blog and magazine genres.When she's not writing, the UC Davis graduate is focused on pursuits of the entertainment industry, spin class, and hot sauce.Getting him to spend quality time with you is like pulling teeth. He has nothing exciting to share about his life and he goes along with what everyone else thinks and says. His lack of depth is bound to make any woman bored. Instead he works at the mall for two weeks, then goes to the grocery store, then works part time at Home Depot.Having him say yes or no to something is all but impossible but the word maybe is one of the most used words in his vocabulary. Instead, he resorts to pointing the finger at everyone else. And when he is obviously in the wrong, he still finds ways to brush some of the blame off on you or someone else. Since he lacks a steady job, he rarely has a consistent flow of money coming into his pockets.The man you’re dating just doesn’t want to commit to anything.He doesn’t want to dedicate all of his time to something when he prefers to do something else. However, an immature guy has a surface and nothing more.
The immature guy is a commitment-phobe who has no idea what he wants, so he resists making decisions about the relationship at all. No immature man would be complete without the jerk quality of wanting to make you jealous.
At the moment all is light and fun but I'm starting to fall for him and am worried that in a long term relationship his emotionally immaturity might be a problem for me in times of stress as I'm quite direct and no fuss.
Does anyone have stories either of emotionally immature men that have changed or of the opposite?
Here are 10 signs he’s way too immature and just not ready for a relationship — at least not with you: He can’t express his feelings.
It’s pretty much impossible to be in a relationship with a guy who can’t express himself, because how are you ever supposed to know what he wants or where you stand?