Dating and relationship advice for men
Here are a few tips to get you moving in the right direction.Never empty your glass – You might be shaking like a leaf and nothing would settle your nerves more than to knock back the glass of wine on your table, but trust me, it’s not worth it.Forget Facebook – If you want to let your friends know how much you loved that latte on the way to work this morning, or share a photo of the most adorable kitten playing a guitar that’s well and good.But do you really want a guy you just met to see all those old photos you’ve been tagged in?
I was the coconut cake to the guys who had ghosted. I had to start thinking of “I want a relationship” as a quality on par with “I want kids.” When someone told me the latter, I didn’t immediately assume that we were going to have kids together.
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How can you turn an awkward first date with the man of your dreams into the relationship you’ve dreamed of?
So why was I making assumptions based on someone’s declaration that they wanted a relationship? And must love double-chocolate fondant cake with a huge side of ice cream.
Those two things should be treated the same way — as important dealbreakers, but not necessarily indicators of what’s to come. After being raised on a steady diet of Disney movies, I expected to meet someone and fall passionately in love — but wound up collapsing under the pressures of modern dating.