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I am very soft hearted and kind to people in general.I am very lonely and his words enchant me, like a fairy tale.That's why they are called fairy tales and not reality. My impression is that he has a pure soul like an angel, he is sweet and caring and at the end of his rope from living in his war torn country.I have tried to disuade him at every turn but he seems immune to all of my shortcomings, including my brutal honesty about a love affair during my marriage and having HSV2. He wants to escape and has found someone (me) who is caring, kind and (with modesty) attractive for my age.It's been a scam the minute you two started talking.I have actually considered, but dismissed the idea that perhaps he is a terrorist. Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting.I am also broke, at least temporarily and he has offered me money, which of course I refused.
The similarities in other stories and my own are remarkable, thus I feel the need to write this post and ask for opinions.
The "relationship" is not real, the love is not real and I know he's looking to scam you for something.
My question for you is: does he show his status on-line but away a lot?
The problem with the vast majority of these cases isn't terrorism. My heart says yes but my head says no to developing a relationship with him. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate.
Sure, there is the Jihadi idealist who wants to find a non-Muslim woman to breed an army, but mostly on here, it's just liars, scammers and cheats. I hate that I have to be cynical and suspicious, searching for alterior motives, but it really does seem too good to be true. That's your femine instincts alerting you to male BS. The usual----money, sex, a VISA, bragging rights to dating someone who is "different", even though dating is not allowed in Islam. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments".